I really feel this way most of the time anymore. My husband says he loves me but his actions say otherwise. I have tried and tried to talk to him. I explain as gently as possible what I need emotionally and I get little to no response from him. He is super stressed because he is unemployed right now but he is a great person and a hard worker I know he will find work. I try to be supportive and patient. I don't demand or I try really hard not to. Last night we had sex but it felt more as if he was too lazy to beat off and just used me instead. When he was done he just rolled over and fell asleep. I felt so icky. What more can I do? We have been having major problems for over a year now. I want my marriage to work but when do I say enough?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:19 PM on Dec. 30, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 2:04 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
"It is normal for men to fall to sleep after orgasm."
Um, no it's not. And if it is, then I have a very abnormal husband. OP, you have to put your needs up front. Tell him what you want and need straight out. Don't sugar coat it or use code. Men need to be told things point blank in a very simple way. If he can't or won't cahnge, then it's time to get out while the getting is good. Tell him you are not happy anymore, and if he won;t work with you to make things better, you will leave him. It seems it has gotten to that point anyway.
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