I am having an issue where, my 23 yr old fiance is irritable all the time. He is really mean in the mornings. I am person that gets flustered easy and sometimes I misplace things and have trouble finding them. When this happens he makes me stop what I am doing right then to go find what I lost and he says things like "GET UP NOW!" in a condescending tone. he is impatient with the kids. He doesn't even give them time to actually do something wrong before he is starts talking like they have. He curses at me and gets really ugly during fights. The living situation right now is affecting him 2. We are living with my hard 2 please mom and she fights w him. He is having trouble getting a job. I know he is a good person. He battles depression and his mind. I know he loves me. I want to help him but I know I can't "SavE" him or change him. He gets defensive when I try to talk. He has NEVER hit me. I don't know what do, Any suggestionsAnswer Question
Answer by boogernoodle at 1:30 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 1:37 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
You are aware that abuse comes in many forms and he's being verbally abusive to you and kids? Living with your Mom is stressful on you both and especially with him not working. I've got a grown son and if he and his fiancee lived in my house, I imagine I would (not intentionally) make it extremely uncomfortable for them to stay. You have to make and accomplish your short/long term goals. Sounds like you're both too young to be marrying. Have you ever tried living on your home and allowing him visitation?
Answer by Ewadun at 2:06 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by NannyB. at 2:37 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by michellelee3708 at 2:59 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
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