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do you think its cheesy to wear a wedding ring?

ok me and my bf have been together for 3 years i love him he loves me the only reason we are not marry is because me and my daughter are covered under my moms insurance until in 25 full coverage that i dont have to pay for so it would be dumb to not take advantage of that, anyways my question is that we are basically married we live together and all that and have a baby, would it be cheesy if we wore wedding rings even though legally we arent married?

 
xxSummaxx13

Asked by xxSummaxx13 at 3:49 PM on Dec. 30, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (19)
  • its not cheesy at all, i am sure some people wouldnt like it but I see it as a sign of commitment to each other so go for it.
    3_ring_circus_

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 3:52 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • I would do it.
    justluvinmyson

    Answer by justluvinmyson at 3:50 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • We do it! :-) Basically the same situation.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:54 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • it would be like promise rings
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 3:55 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • You can get married in the eyes of the church and not be legally married...it's all about the license. The when it's time you get a lic. go to a JP and make it legally binding in civil law.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:58 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • Um, what about an engagement ring? If you are "basically married", then are you engaged? If so, you just tell everyone its an engagement ring...
    Iskkra

    Answer by Iskkra at 4:13 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • ya i just want him to wear one too and he wants to too
    xxSummaxx13

    Answer by xxSummaxx13 at 4:16 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • ya..engagement ring..my hubby wore a ring when we were engaged too
    swaney06

    Answer by swaney06 at 4:23 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • I agree with the engagement ring. A wedding ring is for when you actually do get married.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:32 PM on Dec. 30, 2009

  • I don't think it's cheesy.....but I wouldn't do it. I would want to save that for our special day. I do like the idea of simple promise rings.
    WindyTheWidow

    Answer by WindyTheWidow at 4:56 PM on Dec. 30, 2009