So my SO and I are not married yet and he lives on the other side of town. He loves our daughter just as much as I do. Ever since she was about 2 months old, we agreed to let her spend the night at his house (i stay at my house). Well maybe I have attachment problems but I miss her so incredibly much at night when she is there. I can't sleep right when she isn't home. Of course I can get up and go over for breakfast, and stay to tuck her in at night, but the thought of her not in the crib and the fact I can't hear her on the moniter just makes me cry! We have done this for 6 months now, and I still can't cope.
I have tried in the past to get him to understand how much I miss her, and all he says is that he misses her twice as much bc she isn't there as much as she is here. ANY advice on getting him to see my side? or letting her stay here more? And please don't solve this with "move in together" or "have him stay over".
Answer by honeybee429 at 8:52 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 8:53 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by honeybee429 at 8:55 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by tyfry7496 at 9:38 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by honeybee429 at 9:37 PM on Jan. 1, 2010