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Ever been afraid to fall back in love?

Ladies not everyone can find their dream girl/girl and it be fireworks ever since. There is always a situation that can turn sour after a few months or years. During that stage we fall in love and out of love. Than that new perosn comes and youswore up and down you will not b caught up in the love phase. So u date someone who had their heart broken too ( a divorced man, seperated, etc). You start offf as friends and it grows into somethin more but u don't wanna repeat the fallin in love pattern n in up in square one. what do u do ?

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Lele1987

Asked by Lele1987 at 3:04 AM on Jan. 1, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Enjoy the moment. Live each day to the fullest. Don't let one sour apple spoil the bunch. Judge each person as an individual. Read "Act like a lady, think like a man" by Steve Harvey.
    Ewadun

    Answer by Ewadun at 3:11 AM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • I agree with Ewadun
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:02 AM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • If like me you have had a bad relationship you are going to be very very cautious, and the longer your single afterwards i think the harder it will be, just enjoy yourself take it slowly dont promise too much and see where it goes if anywhere.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:09 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • I would have a good time not everyone you date is going to turn into marriage have a good time share and learn somethings from the person. That is what I am doing now.
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 6:13 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • Every time you get into a relationship you are taking a chance. If you aren't then you are short-changing yourself. If you don't want to fall in love because you are afraid you will end up at square one then you can almost guarantee that you will end up there. You are looking back and not forward. You are expecting it to fail so you are essentially going to fail. You have to take a chance and you have to offer all of you that you can right then in order for any relationship to work. Don't set yourself up to fail by thinking that the next one or the current one is "The One." Have a life with them that is in the moment, that is full of laughter and happiness. Deal with the troubles as they come along and handle them in a manner that looks forward, not back to square one. Happiness comes to each in their own time. It takes try after try but it happens.
    AWomansMind

    Answer by AWomansMind at 11:34 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

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