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How to get back into it

Before my daughter my boyfriend and I had sex like 5 times a day. when i got pregnant i didn't wnat to anymore. Now she's 18 months and i just don't want to. When we do i'm like okay get this over with. I have never had an orgasm or anythign so Idk if that has to do with why i don't care about it or now but how do i get into. if i don't than i think i'm going to lose him orhe's going to cheat. Please help me

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Madelyn_Marie

Asked by Madelyn_Marie at 8:56 PM on Jan. 1, 2010 in Relationships

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  • 5 x's a day? lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:05 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • I'd talk with my doctor about a hormonal imbalance. It can be easily fixed. I'd also talk to him about working on that orgasm thing. You deserve those.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:37 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • SAME thing happened with me - was very active before pregnancy and after, don't want it. But lately I've realized I want it in general, just not with him because I'm unhappy with him (legit non-sexual reasons). There are a lot of reasons that this can happen though...hormone imbalance, years being on birth control, etc. Check with your doctor.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:09 PM on Jan. 2, 2010

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