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faking the big O

anyone else fake it while thinking "hurry up so I can go to sleep!"
I am lucky he wants me to O but c'mon!

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:10 PM on Jan. 1, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • Yep i do it. And surprisingly DH has no idea. DH will hold it in and keep going until i finish so if i know he is close and im just not in the mood then ill fake it so i can just go to sleep or do whatever else it is that i was doing before hand.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:13 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • i don't fake the O's but i will sometimes throw in a fake moan or groan just to get him to hurry up sometimes since he gets off on my noises some times! =)

    Answer by smiley83 at 11:15 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • Never. If I'm feeling done, I just tell him.

    Answer by ecodani at 11:16 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • hubby knows if im faking just by the way my private feels to him


    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 11:19 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • if i were to fake it then he'd quite trying to have me get the big O since i never O. moaniong works to get him off sooner.

    Answer by melody77 at 11:20 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • Ive told him Im come when I havent he's like "oh really...?" I think he doubts but Ill tell him it was a little one. ;) LOL

    Answer by Kelleysunshine at 11:26 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • No, I say hurry up and cum I'm not gonna get there. It doesn't happen very often though. I get off almost everytime. This only happens if I'm really really tired.

    Answer by lowencope at 11:27 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • Used to with men I dated/slept with. Came clean with my DH before we were married and he made me promise not to do that with I don't. I have ways of letting him know it's not gonna happen for me..but it's pretty rare these days lol. He puts a lot of effort into getting me off with foreplay beforehand so then he can have his fun and if I get off again well then yippee lol

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:37 PM on Jan. 1, 2010

  • I don't fake it. If for some reason I'm feeling the urge to end things, I'll just take over. I know how to make him cum so I get on top and do just that.

    He usually wants to even it up and "take care of me" after he recovers, but I'll just tell him that I'm ok for now, that I just wanted to make him feel good tonight.

    I've never been much for lying/faking and this just works so much better.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:03 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • Well, I'm one of those women who can't seem to have one so yeah, I'll fake it rather than have to tell him that it's just not working. Better than dealing with those hurt feelings.

    Answer by madhousequeen at 12:23 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

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