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Anyone with a dh who has a hard time staying hard while wearing a condom? Tmi question.

My dh sometimes can't stay hard when we use a condom, is there a particular type that makes this happen less often or something that we can do so it won't happen?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:20 AM on Jan. 2, 2010 in Just for Fun

Answers (12)
  • Hmm. Does he maybe need a bigger size? I think a lot of the time when that happens in in their heads. Like they have to wear one and think it won't be as good or something.

    I'm so happy your using condoms, though!!

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 1:23 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • Just wondering, why are you happy I'm using condoms??

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • I just think that people should use them more. People rely on birth control way too much. I've noticed that a lot of married couples don't use them for some reason. I'm going to be a sex ed teacher, so things like that make me happy. Lol.

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 1:57 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • My SO would never stay hard longer than 5 minutes when we used condoms. So we quit using them.

    Answer by Amy75972 at 2:01 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • OP if he gets limp wearing a condom its either 1) too small of a condom or 2) he doesnt like condoms at all! my husband does not like condoms and i dont either. it feels nasty.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • I've never met a guy who couldn't climax during sex...LOL..Anyways..... A friend of mine has the same issue, he can't stay hard with a condom on no matter what, i think its a big psych issue with most..

    Answer by CuteandCurvy at 2:35 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • I actually don't believe there's a god. Therefore, I can't act like I am one. Men and women are not the same; far from it actually. If I'm so rude, than why do you keep talking to me?

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 2:36 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • LOL cuteandcurvy, i never said men cant climax. i said NOT every man in this world can have sex you know sexual intercourse, penis in vagina and cum! It is normal...

    sara i am not talking to you, i am typing to YOU :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:39 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • I think for some that can't stay hard is that they don't feel the same while wearing a condom ? I for one HATE the smell of the nasty latex rubber condoms, it is a total turn off so maybe it is for them as well?


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:04 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

  • i dont think sara intended her comment in a negative way, a question was asked and she answered, if you dont like her answer then go on to the next reason to be mean IMO...

    Answer by MamaSusieQ045 at 4:54 AM on Jan. 2, 2010

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