A friend from high school I reciently reconnected with on facebook. He was a very close friend of mine who had always wanted to become romantically invovled but I told him I wasn't interested in him (I didn't think I deserved him).Its been 3 years since then. Im now a single mother & he just got back 3 days ago from Iraq & the other day when I went 2 visit him we ended up making out & cuddling. He tried for more but I said no becuz I didn't want 2 get 2 attatched when i didn't know how he felt. I told him I didn't want to like him to much when I knew he wanted to be single. He said "I never said that. You know how I feel about you, I've felt this way about you since high school" He said it's just complicated with my ex issues and him being in the army.
Since that day we've tried to make plans to see each other again, but he is highly flirtatous. He's only here for two weeks & hes making it very clear he would like 2 have sex
Asked by Anonymous at 1:30 AM on Jan. 2, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by SaraP1989 at 1:32 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
Do you want to have sex with him? Hey you only live once and women are allowed to enjoy sex too, we don't always have to play hard to get.....but if you think its below you emotionally then just leave it be.
Answer by Farrahann at 1:36 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
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Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 1:40 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
Answer by Farrahann at 1:46 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
Answer by TLALONDE16 at 2:00 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
I say have sex with, and let him know that its just that, SEX! Make sure you are the one the leaves first though. Then he will be the one wanting more. Its either that. you give him the most mind blowing piece of ass he has ever had!
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 2:18 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
If you were on a job, it would take about 3 months before you could get benefits (i.e. medical, dental, etc). According to Steve Harvey's book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man," a man should also have to earn his benefits (i.e., sex) before you just dish them out. He also says you should ask a man five questions before you get in too deep. Like, what are his short term goals? What are his long term goals? What's his relationship like with his family, i.e. kids, Mother, Father and ex? How does he feel about you? What does he think about you? The book is great and I highly recommend that you read it. I bought it from Amazon.com used for under $10.
Answer by Ewadun at 2:30 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
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Answer by Bearsjen at 3:52 AM on Jan. 2, 2010
Next question overall
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