I'm having my first baby in June, and the baby's father is in the Marines. He SAYS he will send me money for the baby every month and enroll her in DEERS/TriCare, but I don't trust him enough after the things he has done to me in the past that he will help out unless I file for child support. He also says that he is supposed to be getting deployed within the next month or two. If this is true, is it possible for me to even file for child support while he is deployed? Can he be served the paperwork overseas? Some people I have asked told me that I'd have to wait until he returns, which could be 14 months or more! Plus, god forbid something happens to him before he comes home. I just want to get all my ducks in a row before the baby is born so I know what my options are. Much thanks to anyone who can give me some advice or suggestions!Answer Question
Answer by mommy_lisa25 at 1:37 PM on Jan. 2, 2010
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He can go to legal and have the paperwork drawn up saying that his child is due at this time and child support needs to be started when you turn in a copy of the birthcert. He also needs to have legal draw up the paperwork stating that he is the father of your unborn child. His name will not go on the birth cert if you don't have this paper. (no baby-daddy, no child support) Also, he can give you a power of attorney that states only that you can enroll the child in DEERS. I would also call his 1 SGT, if they do hang up on you at least you tried. If you don't call you will never know. If they do talk to you just say what you need to say and don't go into the whole life story. With him so close to deployment, you might be able to get an amnio to prove paternity.
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