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Are your tweens this observant?

SS (11) just told me, "you've got bags under your eyes. They're big. There's like two under each eye." I'm not sure how to take that one...

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Asked by PROGENITOR at 2:00 AM on Jan. 3, 2010 in Tweens (9-12)

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  • lol yes my son is like that, he will tell me when i look like i need sleep, one day i got up after a nasty migrane the night before and he told me i looked like crap, i was so shocked i just stared at him then told him it was rude, he felt bad he didnt realize how it sounded and then i told him it was okay he was right i did look like crap.

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 2:05 AM on Jan. 3, 2010

  • Wow! I am no sure if I would have been offended or not. But unfortunately, my 9-year old seems to point out the obvious as well. Don't worry, they are only being brutally honest. Someday, you'll miss that about them and wonder where the innocent child went. Until then ... hang on ... it's gonna be a wild ride!

    Answer by sonnalynn at 3:32 AM on Jan. 3, 2010

  • Yep - they also point out new gray hairs, extra hair on my lip, if my make up runs, the extra flab around my bra line, etc.

    Im soooo proud at how observant they are - rolling eyes

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:02 PM on Jan. 3, 2010

  • Oy, my daughter tells me I dress like a bag lady. Which, unfortunately, sometimes I do ROFLMBO. I think observant is a good thing. Rudeness is not and I would make sure he knows that. And to think very seriously before saying something they may hurt another person.

    Answer by crittermomma at 12:20 PM on Feb. 9, 2010

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