Been there. When you think things are going great, you find out they're talking about you behind your back. At least that's been MY experience. And I found that it is normally because they really do like you, they just want to be everyone's "only" friend if that makes any sense, so they try to make everyone else look bad to their other friends. I had a friend who I helped her out numerous times, and she was always there if I needed someone to talk to. Well long story short, my upstairs bathroom flooded into my kitchen, and my whole family ended up having to leave our house for 4 days for clean up. I was going to go stay in the lodging on base for $35 a night but she said Oh why don't you all come stay with me it will be fun. Her DH was deployed and her DD's were my daughter's age so I thought it would be great. We went over, BOUGHT food, cooked food for her and her kids, cleaned up after ourselves, everything. Come to CONT..
at 10:58 PM on Jan. 4, 2010