My kids have an inherited "deformity" so they look a little different than other children. But their father won't take them anywhere. He goes to the grocery store or Blockbuster, he won't take them. Yet if I go, I always take one with me. They love going out and ask all the time to go bye-bye. Yet he leaves and I have to hear the crying and pat them up. I tell them we go next time and find something to distract them. My son now takes him to the door and ask to go and he says "No." We only have one car right now. Which makes it hard already but with kids it's harder.
What can I do to get him to take them out? I asked him was he ashamed of them and he said no. But then doesn't take them anywhere.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:32 AM on Jan. 5, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 9:43 AM on Jan. 5, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:38 AM on Jan. 5, 2010
I inherited this condition and he loves me. But I'm not saying that he doesn't love his kids. He asked me to give up my job to stay at home and to take care of them as a SAHM. They (we) can have surgery to correct this but they're too young and wouldn't be able to do it until they're teens. Right now they're 2 & 3. So what 10+ years of seclusion?
Answer by Anonymous at 9:42 AM on Jan. 5, 2010
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