I am a group owner, and a memeber over the past yr has pretty much become my stalker online. I log on here, she instantly IM's me"hi baby" or"I see you" doesnt matter if my staus is set to busy, she is very demanding, consumes all of my time to the point where even if I ignore her, she calls my house. she does it on facebook too. But she isnt mean, and I am not scared or anything, jujst basically do not feel the same type of closeness with her that she apparently feels for me. how would you handle this? anything I say, no matter how gently, she will be angry, she is mad right now because I told her I couldnt chat earlier...its just weird and goofy and I am so over it.
thanks ladies for the advice in advance.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:02 AM on Jan. 6, 2010 in Relationships
Tell her that you need your space and can't be talking all the time. Or when she contacts you talk a little and tell her you have to go. Let her know that you don't want to talk all day and that you're busy. If she keeps on then delete her. You shouldn't have to worry about peoples feelings when you give them a warning and they disregard your feelings.
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