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HOW DO U STOP THE NOISE AT NIGHT?

MY BOYFRIEND AND I(STABLE RELATIONSHIP) WERE INVOLVED IN SOME "US" TIME ONE AFTENOON WHILE MY 10 Y/O WAS OUT PLAYING.WE LOCKED THE BAK DOOR BUT FORGOT ABOUT THE FRONT DOOR AND WE GOT CUGHT. NOW MY LITTLE BOY HAS PROBLEMS GOING TO SLEEP AT NIGHT BECAUSE HE "THINKS "HE HEARS US DOING ADULT STUFF. HE SAYS HE HEARS IT EVERYNIGHT WHEATHER HE'S AT HOME WITH ME OR SPENDING THE NIGHT OFF. WE BOTH HAVE TALKED TO HIM AND TRIED TO EXPLAIN THAT ADULT STUFF IS NORMAL. BUT HE'S HAVING A TERRIBLE TIME DEALING WITH THIS. ANY SUGGESTIONS

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:08 AM on Jan. 6, 2010 in About CafeMom

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  • I would just tell him your sorry and from now on you will try to keep it down.
    lovemybaby283

    Answer by lovemybaby283 at 9:31 AM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • HAVE YOU HAD THE SEX TALK WITH HIM. THERES A LOT OF AGE APPROCIATE BOOKS THAT WOULD HELP HIM SEE ITS JUST NATURE. IF HE CONTINUES TO HAVE PROBLEMS SLEEPING HE MAY NEED TO GET HIM SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP. FOR NOW YOU NEED TO BE RESPONSIBLE AND DO IT BEHIND CLOSED LOCKED BEDROOM DOORS. HES OLD ENOUGH TO BE HAVING "THE DREAMS" AND THAT MIGHT BE WHATS WRONG AS WELL. GOOD LUCK
    ohio4

    Answer by ohio4 at 1:34 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

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