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What are the signs that your hubby is cheating?

I'm curious to know. I think my hubby is cheating but I'm not sure.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:59 PM on Jan. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:00 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • there are no "for sure" signs unless you find him in bed with someone else.

    you could try talking to him...

    you can also check his cell phone calls and emails, but then if he isn't he may not ever trust you again, so you may want to not ruin your marriage that way.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • lmao @ anon 10:02
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:05 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • not coming home or just would prefer to be with others instead of you ---he might be a cheater
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 10:05 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • stays out late, doesnt come home, comes home smelling differnet than normal (like sex, or like freshly showered), doenst answer his phone, goes out more, detatched from you, more incoming calls, hides or locks phone ect ect
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:07 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • i noticed when he came home late alot, saw "her" as his friend on myspace which was suuuuper suspicious since he only had bands as friends on myspace, and after i confronted him and he deleted her, he added her again! he also changed- became distant, nervous, always acted like he had something to hide. i even told him one day "you know? you walk around with this 'im guilty of something attitude/ posture'", and he was. the biggest tipoff was finding receipts in his wallet of when he bought cigs at CVS when he was supposed to be at work, and reciepts of the bar he hung out with her at. also, on the receipts from the bar, he cashed out at 11 but didnt come home til 3, so i knew they were fucking.
    snoober_k

    Answer by snoober_k at 10:09 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • i cant really tell you sweetie but i would ask a question describing all the things he is doing that seems like is he cheating? and then put do you think this sounds like cheating? and put PART2 ! so we will all know to answer it. at least i will. sorry hun it just confsing if we dont know what hes doing :)
    Armywifelovely

    Answer by Armywifelovely at 10:10 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • Distance
    Lack of interest in sexual intimacy
    Not showing affection
    "Working Late"
    Changes in habits/behaviours
    Being secretive
    Being Shady

    Just talk to him. The only way you're going to shine light on a subject with your husband is if you talk to him. There are a lot of different signs that someone is cheating. Some guys are soo skilled at it that their partner doesn't even notice, or anyone else. Others not soo skilled. It all depends on the guy and how determined he is to not get caught.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:24 PM on Jan. 6, 2010

  • Ever talked with a private investigator or a divorce attny? They will tell you, if you have doubts, 99% of the time he's cheating. I hope you are part of that 1%.
    ecodani

    Answer by ecodani at 12:04 AM on Jan. 7, 2010