My DH only is "affectionate" when I say I want sex. And then he is rushed and has said he wishes I'd be like a "light switch" and just turn on myself.
And now I always have to literally say I want sex.
It used to be he'd give me a lot more affection or do nice things like call during his lunch to tell me I was sexy and be nice all day and be extra helpful and I knew it was because he wanted sex..
When I wanted sex I'd give him massages or dress really sexy.. And I try to dress sexy now or massage and he isn't into it or falls asleep.
This has been since the baby was born that he has been very disinterested in sex, affection, and sometimes he's actually mean. 10 months now.
I don't know what happened :( I feel starved for affection cause he'll pull away from me when I touch him and he doesn't ever touch me anymore.
I didn't get fat... I've asked him what is going on and he says nothing.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:42 PM on Jan. 7, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by NannyB. at 4:04 PM on Jan. 7, 2010