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When did you notice that men stopped noticing you?

I am 32 & I have noticed for last couple of years that I don't get the looks that I use to. Not that it bothers me but i just wonder what has changed so much about me! I use to have real blonde hair & was very curvy & men looked at me alot. Now i am thinner (I look better body wise), my hair is a darker blonde but heavily highlighted & I have breast implants! But nobody notices me! Do you think it is part of being in your 30's???????

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:32 PM on Jan. 8, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Theyhaven't yet.....I am 68 and still get looks from men ...a few years younger than me. I haven't let myself get fat and I color my hair and I look like a woman. tehee. Many women my age get their hair cut really short and they get fat and they look like little old short pudgy men. Ewww. That is so offensive.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:33 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • Oh you just have to stop looking at the young guys, sometime after 30 I noticed the older guys were the ones looking! Although every once in a while a younger guy will say something and I am like "I'm old enough to be your MOTHER!" I've noticed it also depends on how you are feeling, if I am feeling good about my self I notice it more than if I feel all old and frumpy.
    BTW I am 36, 5'7" and 165 lbs and small boobs.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:30 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • I am 43 and I still get flirted with and hit on. I think it's funny.

    Answer by tracylynnr67 at 5:25 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • I was noticed briefly from age 15-17. After that, nobody gave a shit.

    Doesn't help that I'm considered a fatass whale by the majority of the male population...except by my husband, of course =)

    Answer by caitxrawks at 5:14 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • honestly men rarely noticed me. I'm the quiet, easily overlooked type. I"m a plain jane lol which is fine but not one that ever attracted much male attention

    Answer by ColtsFan1912 at 5:13 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • Between 30-35 I had little ones in tow and did not get many looks. I am now 44 and get more looks, I do not think its age- I think its little ones that freak men out ;)

    Answer by justmyopinion at 5:13 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • When I was 18 years old. That's when I got married to my husband of now 45 years, and I didn't give a hoot whether any other man ever looked at me or not.

    Answer by NannyB. at 5:09 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • I'm 47 and they're still checking me out. Some guy came up to me in grocery store and told me not to slap him, but that I had nice legs. So what if he was a senior citizen.


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:57 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • Only when I was really bitchy, fat, pregnant, and married lol. I'm still bitchy and a bit fat lol but I get "the looks" and men ask for my number.
    I think when you are in a relationship you give off a totally different vibe and guys pick it up so you are bound to be noticed a little less. Not like that is a bad thing but it can be hard on your ego thats for sure.

    Answer by sk_tennyson at 4:42 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

  • No idea. I think they still notice me....I'm not "all that", but I am hilarious at times

    Answer by Starfire73 at 4:39 PM on Jan. 8, 2010

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