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I am 32 & I have noticed for last couple of years that I don't get the looks that I use to. Not that it bothers me but i just wonder what has changed so much about me! I use to have real blonde hair & was very curvy & men looked at me alot. Now i am thinner (I look better body wise), my hair is a darker blonde but heavily highlighted & I have breast implants! But nobody notices me! Do you think it is part of being in your 30's???????Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:32 PM on Jan. 8, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 7:04 PM on Jan. 8, 2010
Answer by Jmum at 7:37 PM on Jan. 8, 2010
Answer by freedomthinks at 7:43 PM on Jan. 8, 2010
I don't think there is an age in which someone is no longer noticed by the opposite sex. I'm 48 and still get noticed quite often.
Maybe it isn't what all you have done or haven't done to your appearance that doesn't get you noticed. Maybe it's the way you carry yourself, the way your present yourself, you comfort level with yourself, or your confidence level in yourself.
Answer by EnigmaMuse at 7:45 PM on Jan. 8, 2010
I think it has everything to do with personality and how you come across more so then body type. I have gone from BIG to small to BIG BIG and get hit on just as much no matter what size and age. I spoke to a friend's brother the other day (the super hot brother that everyone drools over & yes I am 35) and said I can't believe I still get hit on, are these guys blind? He looked at me like I was an idiot and said, Are you serious? You are such a great person and so much fun to hang out with. I said, Really *insert guys name here* look at me (he is very honest and does not care about anyone's feelings) this is not me?! He said, So? I am still reeling over his comment especially since he is still "it" and constantly going out with 20 / teen somethings while he is 40. It truly is in how you carry yourself.
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