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I need advice on how to tell my fiance I wont to end our engagement

Hello To All Moms: First of all we live together and someone wrote a letter put in my front door telling me he was using drugs okay I show him the letter someone is jealous someone trying to break up our happy home I cannot get him to talk.

Give me advice on how to go about telling him thanks

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:20 AM on Jan. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Buy a drug test from CVS or Walgreens and have him take it. If he refuses or it comes up positive. Say BYE!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:25 AM on Jan. 9, 2010

  • Well what did he say when he saw the letter? Did he say anything? or nothing?
    soonmommyof3

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 9:25 AM on Jan. 9, 2010

  • If there is no indication that he is using drugs, which I say because someone had to tell you otherwise you weren't suspicious?, then it may not be true. Would you trust an anonymous stranger over your fiance?
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 9:33 AM on Jan. 9, 2010

  • But to answer your question. Tell him to his face. Keep it gentle and non-accusing. He deserves to know the reasons. Have a plan so you are ready to move out or so he can.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 9:35 AM on Jan. 9, 2010

  • also could he have cheated? He is to quiet for a good reason.
    gammie

    Answer by gammie at 10:03 AM on Jan. 9, 2010

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