Hi mamas, I need ur help on this one, anytime my DH babysits my kids,there's always a problem with their gentiles for the girls(3 & 2)) they will be crying bitterly and be covering their gentiles with their hands not allowing me to bath them, closing their legs firmly. when i look closely I will notice some bruises. on one occasion a ped examine them and informed me that there was no hymen! and asked me if anyone in my home is sexually abusing the kids then my nephew was living with me, we simply send him away. right now my DH and I are taking care of our kids but this problem is still there especially when i live the girls at home with my DH. one day the situation was so bad that the elder one walking with her legs open when i asked what the matter was she was staring at me with fears in her eyes, i broke down and started crying DH said that i was accusing him , but i never uttered a word.help mamasAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:30 PM on Jan. 9, 2010 in General Parenting
You need to take your children to the doctor and tell them you have concerns that they are being sexually abused. The doctor will be able to confirm this. I can't believe the doctor didn't already call CPS when he discovered the girls have no hymen. You need to have this confirmed with a doctor and kick your husband out of the house ASAP! Do not leave your children alone with him anymore until you find out if it's him.
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Answer by Shyma at 6:44 PM on Jan. 9, 2010
What is wrong with you????? It sounds like this has been going on for a while now! You are disgusting! As soon as the doctor said something, as soon as you had the slightest thought that something was happening to your children you should have done something about it, You shouldn't have to ask how to stop it use your frickin head! What is wrong with you? These are your children!!! It is your job to protect them, even if it is from their father! You don't deserve to have children, just as much as he doesnt! I swear you should have to pass a test in this country to have children! Just any moron can have children no questions asked and it isnt right!!!! I talk with my son all the time about not allowing people to touch him where his underwear are, and ask him if any body ever has! If your oldest is 3 talk to her, in her terms she can tell you!
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