My parents' have threatened to not let me come back to their home after I have my 3rd daughter if I don't get my tubes tied during my cesarean. My husband is deployed and I'm not on the best terms with his mom right now even though she'd take us in in this case but I just don't want to be a burden on her. I have the means to atleast get a hotel until I can find a place but I won't even be able to drive let alone pick up my other 2 kids for 6 weeks. How can they do this to me at such a crucial time?? I don't want to get my tubes tied, not because I want more children I just don't want to, and I especially don't want to just because they want me to and are blackmailing me into it. I'm not giving in and altering my body because of threats. I just don't know how I'm going to take care of the kids all alone after having major surgery.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:39 PM on Jan. 9, 2010 in Relationships
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I agree with the last anon. If you can't support yourself or the child you already have, maybe it would be a good idea to get your tubes tied. If you have to rely on others for support then they should have say over what they are supporting. If you don't like it, go out on your own. No one else has to support you.
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