My little girl is 4, but I'm posting in the older age group for advice. She is very direct, she doesn't understand being quiet to save the other persons feelings. If someone does something wrong, even if it has nothing to do with her, she tells on them. If she is playing with her friends and they want to go play something else, she doesn't go with them or decide stay with the same activity by herself, she stands there and cries to see who will come back. I say 'play what they want to play and they will play your game in a bit', but she doesn't see it that way.
I went to her school yesterday and was very sad. She is isolated much of the time, the kids aren't mean to her, but they leave her alone. She has a hard shell, instead of trying harder to make friends, she tries to prove she is not lonely. Has anyone experienced this? Do they understand more as they get older?
Answer by bebita at 9:41 PM on Jan. 9, 2010
Answer by Seven07 at 11:09 PM on Jan. 9, 2010
Answer by pat7879 at 4:28 PM on Jan. 10, 2010