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ive been back communicating with my ex which is my unborn childs father. we've been talking about the baby mostly. how he wants to be there when i have it and he plans to take care of the child too. but then we find ourselves telling one another we miss each other and we wanna see each other too.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:47 PM on Jan. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Been there, done that....Please odn't fall for it...If he wants to REALLY be there for his child, then let him prove it..Actions speak louder than words..Take a big girl pill and stay strong....Whatever the reason the two of you are not together would have to be addressed as well..Take care
    nikki1012009

    Answer by nikki1012009 at 8:49 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • ok, ...not being a smart alec but what's the question?
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:48 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • Is he the one that is abusive and just broke up with his GF and you want him back... If so, same answer as before, STAY AWAY !!!!
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 8:49 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • lol i iunderstand. we starting off communicating just about the baby. and now were telling one another we miss each other and want to see other badly. we had a bad break up. but now i miss him alot and still love him. what should we do. what should i do? i dont wanna get hurt but i still do love him. or are we feeling this way just because we have a child together.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:51 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • I have the perfect song for your situation "Cowboy Castinova" by Carrie Underwood. (spelling probably wrong) anyways there is a line it "run run away, you better run for your life......he'll break your heart in just a matter of time." LOVE that song anyways... I say let him be there for the baby. but remember there is a reason you're no longer together. So if you wanna try again fine but be smart & don't let your guard down too soon. GL
    rebel07

    Answer by rebel07 at 10:26 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • You're always going to have feelings for him,he's the father of your child - there will always be some type of "bond" or "connection". Its great if he truely does want to be part of his childs life,BUT like said above actions speak louder than words,so make him show you that he's going to step-up and take responsibility! Take things slowly,don't go rushing into anything with him - if you two really miss each other so badly and want to see each other thats fine,but make it something simple,meet for lunch and just talk...take things one step at a time. Dont feel like you have to jump right back in a bad relationship just because you're having his child though!
    dakotasmommy06

    Answer by dakotasmommy06 at 7:34 AM on Jan. 11, 2010