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Do you think it's ok to ask your bridesmaid to lose weight for your wedding?

She weights 250 pounds

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:07 PM on Jan. 10, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Nope. She's either your friend or a relative and you knew what she looked like before deciding to have her in your wedding party.

    Amaranth361

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 10:47 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • Seriously? Have you ever learned the meaning of friend?
    Whatkids

    Answer by Whatkids at 9:07 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • No. I also think you should be considerate when you are telling her the type of dress to wear too.
    dakotaNrye

    Answer by dakotaNrye at 9:09 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • NO!! That is bitchy and mean. Very insensetive and judgemental. If you told me to lose weight I wouldn't want to be in your wedding or be your friend. A touch of bride zilla here?
    Steff107

    Answer by Steff107 at 9:09 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • That is very rude and talk about what a why to hurt your friends feelings.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:10 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • No, it is not right too. She is your friend at 150 pounds or 250 pounds. If you want her in your wedding, she needs the be the way she is and the way you love her. You don't love her weight, you love her.
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 9:10 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • Wow, maybe you should focus more on your marriage than what people will look like in your wedding. I think you are more in love with the wedding than your man!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:10 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • No I do not think it's ok. I thinks it's extremely rude and unthoughtful.
    JessicaB86

    Answer by JessicaB86 at 9:21 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • Why should she have to go through all that hard work just to see you divorce in 5 years?
    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:21 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

  • Absolutely NOT.
    RutterMama

    Answer by RutterMama at 9:23 PM on Jan. 10, 2010

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