My fiance thinks that my oldest daughter(12)is to grown. The other day all the kids were up and I was asleep. My daughter told me that my fiance went into her room and broke 5 of her CD's that he purchased for her because she accidentally hit him. I asked him about it and he said she did not do it on a accident because she did not apologize and that he took matters in his own hands since I dont know how to give punishments right.
Today I asked him to clean up our bathroom, he says your daughter can do it. And I say no this is our bathroom why should she clean it she has her own bathroom to clean. Then he says I am not cleaning it she needs to clean anything that needs to be cleaned. I told him that I am so fed up with his attitude towards my daughter and that he had better change it or it would be some changes with us. He says I am wrong and I never understand his side I automatically defend my kids. What do you think?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:30 AM on Jan. 11, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by ladyd6280 at 3:40 AM on Jan. 11, 2010
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Answer by Piskie at 5:09 AM on Jan. 11, 2010
Sounds to me as if he wants to be the only child in your life. He is acting like a spoiled 2 yr old. Breaking her things? Are you kidding me? How old is HE? I would be worried what he really has planned for her if I were you. Your first responsibility is to your children. Men are like buses, a different one comes along every 10 minutes. But NO MAN is more important than your child! Period. You have so little time left with her as it is. You blink twice and she'll be an adult herself. If I were you, I'd give him very clear guidelines on how he was to treat my children. If he refused, he would be G O N E! And the first time he messed up, same reaction. Your number one job on this planet is to protect and raise your kids. After they're grown, you can think about putting your wants and needs ahead of theirs. Not one day before that though. Piskie is right! He sounds abusive to me too. Protect you and her.
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