But it hasn't happened yet, he's not one of those guys who voluntered because I did all the work of having three kids. Nope, he actually thought that I should be the one to get anything done. So then I told him, "you know after you get fixed I'm gonna have sex with you (in a way that he's always wanted to, and I've never done with him). Then he got mad at me, and we haven't talked about it since. I don't want to accidently get pregnant. I good with 3. What should I do? Should I go get my tubes tied, or should I wait for him. I was just really nervous about getting it done, and thought it would be easier; less recovery time; more fair if he would just get it done. Help? What do you think?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:12 PM on Jan. 11, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by kimigogo at 4:14 PM on Jan. 11, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 4:15 PM on Jan. 11, 2010
respectfully I have to disagree with Nathskitten... that is a very hostile approach and will do more damage to the marriage than good.
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