I'm 18weeks along the father of my son is a jerk and wants nothing to do with my bundle of joy. I'm affarid when the baby comes he will!!! He is down right mean has called me nasty names, said the baby wasnt his just horrible things that I have never heard. Has a major gambling and drink problem. I dont know what to do. I know I cant keep him away from his son, but I dont want my son around someone that drinks and is disrespectful to woman! What to do?Answer Question
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Answer by babyfat5 at 6:26 PM on Jan. 11, 2010
My guess is if he doesn't want anything to do with you and the baby now, chances are slim he'll come around after the baby is born... Have him sign away all parental rights, Don't put him on the birth certificate, If he's away long enough after the birth you can claim abandonment. There are ways to keep him at bay but if he decides to be a father to this child then your going to have to work with him on it - Just make sure he pays his support and go to court to designate visiting.
Answer by Anonymous at 6:28 PM on Jan. 11, 2010
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