My hubby an I have been married for about 4 yrs. an hes Marine recruiter, I was wondering if my husband is the only Marine whose not romantic cuz hes been train to be tough an cant show weekness.
Im not sure what to think anymore, yea he hugs me an kisses me but when it comes to a flower now an then well put it this way he SUPER SUCKS at being ROMANTIC.
For my birthday or X-mas he got me S**T he said happy b-day in the morning with a kiss but thats it im a simple girl. I would have been happy with a card an a single flower. We've actually had this conversation already he just dosent have in him.
So his b-day is coming up in April ,so should I do something for him like I do every yr. ? or should I give a dose of his own meds....
Answer by tropicalmama at 12:46 PM on Jan. 13, 2010
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Answer by rkoloms at 1:10 PM on Jan. 13, 2010
If you give him a dose of his own meds then you are being HIM, not yourself. Do what your heart tells you to do. If you want to teach someone something it's best to show them. Don't repeat his ineffective behavior on his birthday. Show him what you expect of him by serving as an example. (dinner, card, gift, whatever) I think you are lucky. You get a kiss and a hug plus a flower some days. My military SO wouldn't even do that. I do believe they think it's a sign of weakness but we have to train them. The military trained them one way so we have to deprogram them! lol
Answer by admckenzie at 1:32 PM on Jan. 13, 2010
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