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con't what should i do?

most days i have the house clean and dinner ready but even if i do everthing he wants he'll still cuss me out i've tred talking i've tried yelling i've tried not talking i love him but should i stay with him i can make this place spotless and he cussed me out cuz the counter wasn't wiped off and he won't come home rite after work he spends all his free time with his dad or his friends i never get 2 leave this house with out both my kids


Asked by wifeandmamaof2 at 5:04 PM on Jan. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (3)
  • He doesn't deserve to be with you. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and want to be with you. Who'll want to take you out, and want to spend their free time with you. Also, appriciate the fact that you do everything around the house, let alone how much time you spent doing it for him.

    admckenzie .. That is the biggest crock I've ever heard. Parents are the root of all evil when their children turn out to be an ass. A parent can do a fantastic job at raising their child, but some children still turn out wrong. Children have minds of their own, believe it or not, and some never learn. This guy apparently never learned.

    Don't ask his mother what to do in this situation. If you can't get through to him being his S/O then nobody will. You need to do what is right for you and that is get out of the situation. Don't keep gett verbally abused by him. You can't fix him, regardless (contin)

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 5:29 PM on Jan. 13, 2010

  • He's certainly disrespecting you. It's a shame men can't appreciate what we do and not dwell on the little things we don't do. Maybe you could ask him mom how to please him. She ruined him by teaching him to be how he is. She would be the expert to make him quit cussing you out.

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:10 PM on Jan. 13, 2010

  • (Contin) Regardless of who you ask, if he doesn't want to be fixed. You have tried your hardest, as you have stated, and he refuses to show any concern for the situation. He doesn't even want to be at home, so what is the point in you staying there? You're his maid, that is all you are to him. A convenience. Do you honestly want to stay in a situation with someone who has no repsect for you and clearly doesn't care about you.

    I know a lot of women will suggest counseling. Again, if he doesn't want to change then nobody will make him change. He is clearly proving to you that you're nothing to him. Don't be in that situation. Love doesn't solve everything and love is only the soul of the relationship. You need a lot more then love to keep a relationship alive, and he isn't helping rececitate this relationship. Get out of the situation. It's the best thing you can do for yourself.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 5:32 PM on Jan. 13, 2010