You have a few options. Just go, with your son, and try to meet people where ever you go.
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Go to storyhour at the library, and introduce yourself to the other parents
I am an older mom..but when my kids were little i did not have any mom friends either. It did not stop me from ejoying taking my kids anywhere. I always managed to have conversations with other parents where ever I took them.