Hubby has started being secretative, he doesn't want me to have the cell phone (we have a prepaid so I can't get records) he is rude and mean to me, calls me names, tries to pick fights, I've caught him in lies about work times. He got furious when he said he had some meeting on Monday (not required he wants to go to it) so I scheduled a doctor's appt for the time he should be home (we only have one car) and he got really pissed. He has lied to me about text messages. This just started about 3 weeks ago. Tonight he started in on me and I told him that's it, I don't want to talk to you, leave me alone and haven't said a word to him all night. Seems to work better than letting him argue with me. Don't tell me to leave, that isn't an option right now. But I would like to catch him, any ideas?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:35 AM on Jan. 15, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Mommy2Layla08 at 2:52 AM on Jan. 15, 2010
Answer by TattooedMommy04 at 2:48 AM on Jan. 15, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:58 AM on Jan. 15, 2010
Why bother with all that crap? Just get to a place in you life where you can leave him and leave it at that. What put yourself through more then you need to. I would do that, then when your ready hand divorce papers to your husband... Tell him you know he is cheating and that is that. I do agree with one thing the PP said. NO SEX. don't want to catch something from that asswipe! Gl.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:05 AM on Jan. 15, 2010
Or if you want to stay, KILL HIM WITH KINDNESS. Even if he is cheating you treat him great, even if he treats you bad, treat him great. Make him feel so guilty with the love you still have for him. That's one way to catch a cheater, On works if he cares. though.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:09 AM on Jan. 15, 2010
Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 7:06 AM on Jan. 15, 2010
Answer by Scuba at 7:47 AM on Jan. 15, 2010
Answer by TarLion at 12:36 PM on Jan. 15, 2010