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If you got spanked growing up, was it on the bare bottom? If so, do you spank that way now?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:31 PM on Jan. 15, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Yes, I was, and no, I don't. I don't believe in spanking. I know it didn't work on me, and there is no way on earth I'll ever spank my child(ren). How do you teach a child not to be violent if you're doing the same thing to him/her?
    Anouck

    Answer by Anouck at 2:34 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • I was spanked, and I didn't turn into a psychopath. I pinch more than I spank. Bare bottoms are never involved, unless the kid happened to be naked ( like bath time) when a pinchy-pinch was needed.

    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 2:35 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • spanked with a belt, very very rarely and never more than once per very very rare spanking. also rarely got mouth with soap.

    As a mom I've occasionally spanked my kids but worked best and works best is to take away things longterm.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:36 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • "spanked with a best, very very rarely ...." Meant to add never spanked barebottom, always through clothes and again - the spankings and mouth soap were very very rare. Parents really kept us in line by controlling hours of tv and as teen by taking away the car.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:39 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • i use all other methods before spanking yelling, taking things away, writing sentences, extra chores etc.. & if I do spank its on the butt NEVER on the bare bottom & only with my hand. it's rare I have to spank.
    maiahlynn

    Answer by maiahlynn at 2:41 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • When we spank (last resort) it is on a panted bottom ... unless he is already pant-less. OR - if it is a severe infraction. Is he abused? NO... is he disciplined - YES. Does he 'fear' us... NO.
    RutterMama

    Answer by RutterMama at 2:45 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • i was spanked with whatever my parents could reach. not bare-bottom, but with things like slippers, those chinese back scratchers, rulers, etc.. and i don't spank as extreme as my parents, but i will give them a smack on the hand, on the butt if they did something really bad (which is rare).
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:45 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • i dint get spank!! i got beaten,. blood and bruises.
    i spank with clothes on. and very rare. i cant rember the last time i spank my dd. i use as a last resort.
    piwife

    Answer by piwife at 2:51 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • I was spank on the bottom with clothes on and im not crazy.... And yes i do spank my kids
    aeroslove

    Answer by aeroslove at 2:52 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

  • I got spanked with a belt and a gun rod till I had welts on my back and was bruised up very bad. I spank my son ONLY as a last resort when nothing else works and I only use my hand.
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 2:58 PM on Jan. 15, 2010

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