My friend texted me 2 days ago to see if I wanted to come to her daughter's birthday party. I called her yesterday and said that I would like to come, but I would have to come a couple hours early (with my 18 month old) and then I would have no ride home. She said that it would be fine if I came early or that she could even pick me up and that taking me home was not an issue at all. Well, my daughter and I were ready this morning and I call her. No answer. I then text letting her know, if she doesn't respond by 12:50 that I wasn't coming because my dh has to leave for work and after that I will be without a car. Just in case, I had him the leave the car seat. Well, it is now 2:30 and I still haven't heard a single word. Why do people make plans and then completely disregard them? It really hurts my feelings. This isn't the first time I have been "dissed." Why seek me out, just to do this?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:32 PM on Jan. 16, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by jjessers at 2:48 PM on Jan. 16, 2010
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Answer by lfl at 2:36 PM on Jan. 16, 2010
You said that you have been "dissed" before. Was this by the same person. If so, maybe you might want to have a discussion with her about how you feel. Maybe she really isn't the friend that you want. I have a friend that invites people to her parties only because she doesn't want to hurt feelings. But then complains about them when they come or don't come. Is this the type of friend you want for your child? But on the other side... maybe she got so overwhelmed with pre-party activities that she forgot to pick you up. And then when you called and/or texted, she was totally embarrassed. She might be trying to not communicate because she is upset with herself. Either way, you need to be gracious and give the gift to her child. The issue is with the parent.
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