my Dh is 24 and although he works during da week thats allllll he does. I feel like I still do everything I was doing b4 I got married. I just got him to faithfully take out the trash. But everything from the maintenance of the carS to fixing broken things around the house I DO!! So you can imagine how pissed off I stay. When I start doing something he comes and ask me why I didnt ask him, and I have already asked him 2-3 times b4 I give up and do it myself. I feel like all he does is pay the bills and f*&$ me. 2nite I had to fix the broken toilet seat becuz his azz is sitting down watching the game. Something(maybe a bird) crawled up our dryer shut and died and ive asked him for 4 weeks to clean it out (so it looks like Ill be doing that 2nite). i dont wanna lose respect for him but geeze hes not really giving me nothing to work with. I talk to him, fuss, cuss but nothing seems to work. I AM TIRED!! pls help!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:32 PM on Jan. 16, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 9:38 PM on Jan. 16, 2010
You put: I feel like I still do everything I was doing b4 I got married.
Why would you think things would change just because you got married?? I love being married, but I didn't think anything would change other than legally, and our commitment is stronger of course. But, activities, especially if you were living together beforehand are pretty much the same.
However, it is still early in your marriage, and he can be trained. It just takes a lot of time and patience. It helps if you do it in such a way to make him think it was his idea.
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