I still have contact with him, and he has actually come to see me and stay with me several times. I had him at 16 and he was adopted by a family member. My kids are getting older and asking why big brother doesn't live with us. I want to be honest, but only tell them a little at a time, so they can process it. Will they hate me? I have a lot of feelings of guilt and failure that I don't want to project onto my kids. I am just as bonded with him as the other kids and want them to know that. Any ideas on how to do this would be wonderful.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:59 PM on Jan. 17, 2010 in Adoption
Answer by mom2snsb at 1:32 PM on Jan. 17, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:01 PM on Jan. 17, 2010