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I have three children and my boyfriend has two his children are special needs with major behavior problems we been together for 4 years he has his own income and I have mine do you think it was a good idea for us to move in together?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:48 PM on Jan. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • That is up to you and him. If you already have a hard time with his children It will be much harder when you two are living withe each other.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:49 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • It is up to you but moving in together causes a whole new set of problems. Especially when it comes to personal space and boundaries... Oh I miss the days when I had personal space.........GL!

    Answer by chefronswife at 3:51 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • Only you can determine what will be the best situation for your children.

    Answer by rkoloms at 4:00 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • That can only be determined by you two.

    Answer by Raeann11 at 4:02 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • If you have to ask, then I think you must be having some doubts, so I wouldn't do it.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:03 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • I remember this question!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:04 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • That isn't our call to make. That is between you and him.
    If you're having to ask, like a PP said, then you're clearly having doubts. You need to sort that out before the relationship continues.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:07 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • I wouldn't.

    Answer by Pnukey at 4:20 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

  • i wouldnt because you will likely end up with 5 kids with behavior problems especially if your kids are younger and are looking up to his

    Answer by shay1130 at 4:42 PM on Jan. 19, 2010

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