Anytime my mom comes to visit or help watch my daughter, she is CONSTANTLY cleaning my house. Mind you, my house is not spotless but it is not a pig sty either. I know she's obsessively cleaning her house all the time. Fine, it's her house, whatever. But I've asked her NOT to clean mine unless I ask her for help because it is insulting to me for her to be unable to just sit and talk with me or play with my daughter without doing something else. Today she was at it again and I blew up and told her if she can't respect my wishes then I don't want her coming over. She says it is just a part of her personality, she's done it all her life and can't change.
I am just being a bitch on this? Should I let her do whatever she wants even in my home? It bothers me so much because she's often over to help me watch my daughter if I need to work, but instead she is cleaning so my daughter is still always playing alone. (She's 20 mos.)
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