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Under what circumstances is forgiveness not an option?

This is in regards to anybody. Spouse, family, friends, etc. What is the worst possible thing that you feel somebody could do to you to make you never forgive them?

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Asked by nicolemstacy at 8:27 PM on Jan. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Abuse.

    Answer by gdiamante at 8:28 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • Hurt one of my kids. Any violent behavior. cheating.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:29 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • nothing, i'd always forgive. now, just because i forgive someone for something terrible doesn't mean i'd stay friends with them, providing that it be so bad that'd have to happen. you can still forgive and not "hang" with that person. if it's family, sure keep tabs but it would take alot for me to trust them again.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:31 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • hurting one of my kids is the worst thing that you could do to me. no matter who that person was wealther it was physical or mental.

    Answer by michelle.coppes at 8:32 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • Steel from me. Hurt my kids. Call DSHS on me. Cheat on me

    Answer by louise2 at 8:34 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • Violence. Harming children in any way.

    Answer by ecodani at 8:36 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • When the person is not sorry.When they blame you for what happened.Sexual abuse

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 8:47 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • sexual abuse, abuse,cheating, and hurting my kids. AND calling DHS on me. That only hurts my kids. cuz I am a damn good mother! I'm just poor. I had an aunt call DHS on me because we gave our 18 month old daughter 2% milk instead of whole. So ya, needless to say we don't talk to her anymore.


    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 9:00 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • The forgiveness is not for the person it is for me. So I would forgive. Doesn't mean that if that person did some terrible to myself or someone I love, that I would want the book thrown at them.


    Answer by DevilInPigtails at 9:28 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

  • I don't think cheating or abuse deserve forgiveness.

    Answer by KairisMama at 9:34 PM on Jan. 21, 2010

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