There is no list to give you the answers to your life. You have to look at what is important to you: your values, your career, your home life, your parenting methods, your lifestyle, etc. Are all of your needs being met in the relationship? Do you get out of the relationship at least the same amount as you put in? In a marriage there will be an ebb and flow of love and lust. Don't confuse one for the other and don't think just because it is currently lacking, all is lost. I suggest you sit down and write a pro and con list for both staying and leaving then make up your mind.
at 1:28 PM on Jan. 22, 2010