rub my feet every night, breakfast in bed, cook breakfast lunch and dinner, change diapers, not spend money on stupid things...
lol no but seriously, it depends on how you guys "blend" and how you want to be a family. like some guys (and women) believe the man goes to work, the woman does everything else around the house (which we don't do, i'd die lol)
For us, DH goes to work, while i stay home and deal with the kids, clean the house, cook, ect. but he is not just a worker for the family, he is PART of the family. for us, everyone lives here, everyone helps clean. sure the 1yr old can't do much, but i got the 2yr old cleaning up too, like picking up toys, throwing things away, ect. when dh comes home sometimes he watches the kids while i cook or vise versa. if laundry needs to be done he helps me. same with dishes.
at 2:45 PM on Jan. 22, 2010