I realize that numerous moms go through this situation, and I'm sort of new to it being recently separated from the father of my child. I'm having the most difficult time accepting the fact that the father of my child does not love me or want to be with me in return. I am not married, but I am afraid that I'll never find a man who is accepting of me having a child. I have a wonderful son to show for everything, but its just so difficult to know that the man I love, and my son's daddy is going to find someone else to make him happy and to be in my son's life. Knowing that I am in love with him and I can't be with him, yet I have to raise a child with him and watch him be with other women for the rest of my life just rips me apart. How do separated couples and divorced couples deal with this???? Any advice, personal experiences or positive words would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much...
Asked by Anonymous at 12:16 AM on Jan. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by secondtyme520 at 12:22 AM on Jan. 23, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:45 AM on Jan. 23, 2010
I had three kids with an abusive man who told me that NO ONE would ever want me... I divorced him and got back into touch with my high school sweetheart who promptly asked me and my kids to move in with him. 8 years later we have a 6 year old son but decided today that neither of us are happy and need to move on. The kids and I will be fine. You really do not need a man in the picture and sometimes it is much easier to raise your child alone as you have no one telling you their thoughts and beliefs on how you should do this or that.... I do know the lonliness factor as my youngest dad has been away working for much of his life and now we are going our own ways. Things will work out for you, you do not need a man in your life to make it. Your child will eventually see all that you have done for them and love you all the more for it. Hang in there!
Answer by ceresa at 12:55 AM on Jan. 23, 2010
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