My husband and I have been married a year, together almost 7. We have a son plus my 2 from a previous. I love him. He works hard and doesn't go out. But he plays video games all the time and isn't very affectionate. I feel unhappy. Like something is missing. He doesn't feel like my best friend. He's not mean, not abusive, just kind of boring. I have talked about it with him a million times but I just feel like something isn't meant to be. I am extremely physically attracted to him so that isn't an issue. What the heck is wrong?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on Jan. 24, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 3:57 PM on Jan. 24, 2010
Surely this isn't something new. Odds say he was like this before you got married. Why did you expect it to change? The media lies about what marriage is supposed to be like. There are times in a marriage where it does get boring. If he's boring, it' means you're boring too. Read the book, the language of love and have him read it as well. The biggest thing is communication. If he doesn't know how you feel and doesn't know what you want, you won't get it.
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