Above response... the reason you should is because you deserve someone who will love you and only you, who respects you as a woman, as a person, who wants to build a future with you, who you can sleep with atleast not knowing he's sleeping with someone else but if that doesn't bother you...I guess you shouldn't, so long as you're never wanting the ring on your finger, the love that is only for you and you alone.
To the OP: I'd be lying if I said I never had one. I've learned to never say never, so I won't say that I'll never have another one but it's not something I'm setting out to do, it's not something that I want to do, and I don't put myself in the position to be tempted. I made bad choices in the past, and I live with the regret every single day knowing what I've done and I hope I will never ever hurt anyone again the way that I hurt that man by doing that to him and there was no excuse good enough in hindsight.
at 9:32 AM on Jan. 26, 2010