DH and I never really had sex as much as I wanted. Maybe 2-3 X a wk when i wished for it everyday... Then it tapered to 1X a wk. Then 1X every couple wks. I think we had sex maybe 5x the whole time I was pregnant... Now that she is here, we have gone months. The last time was a few wks ago & only lasted a few minutes. I used to be frustrated, now I am scared, cause I hardly even desire it anymore. .I think I turned it off just so I wouldn't be frustrated. I know some of it is lack of oppourtunity, but the other night we totally had the chance, but neither of us would initiate. I called him out on that he says he wants to, but never ever makes the move. I am tired of making a move, and he lays there only half interested. He says he is attracted to me, but he sure has a lame way of showing it.
Can this situation be fixed? Has anyone been in this situation and revived it? 1X a wk would be an improvement!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:52 AM on Jan. 27, 2010 in Relationships
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My husband was paralyzed 8 years ago when he was hit by a drunk driver (thankfully the drunk driver died). We have not had sex since our marriage is wonderful. We had to change our marriage and realized sex was just the icing on the cake but the cake is still pretty good without it. I miss sex but I would never go outside my marriage and hurt my husband. I am happy with him and our life together. I think in your case you need to talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and ask him how he is feeling. Have a grown up discussion about this. If needed seek marriage counseling nothing wrong with getting help with a problem.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:50 AM on Jan. 27, 2010
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