There are lots of resources and tips that are available for you, and a lot of what I would suggest is going to be based on what branch you all are. For one thing, have you talked to your Ombudsmen or to your Key Spouse? Another really good resource for help is with your FRG - I know that often they have a bad reputation, but not all of it is deserved - just like anything, there's good and bad ones.
As far as right now, I would suggest that you look into some of the groups here that are specific to your branch of service, there are a lot of good tips there, too.
But as far as specific tips and stuff, if you want to PM me, we can talk more in private about things that can help.
just hang in there though!
at 6:58 AM on Jan. 27, 2010