A much younger, life-long friend of mine.. She had a terrible upbringing. Alcoholic abusive father, dependent abusive mother.. She's a compulsive liar and troubled.
I don't like to judge her and I tolerate her lying because she's like a sister and I've always tried to help her - like I pushed her really hard into getting her GED and finally she did.. but when she told me she was pregnant (and pleased as punch to be) I was SPEECHLESS.
But then again there is a child in this. The child could end up very messed up because her mom is not ready to be a parent and doesn't have any idea what a good one is like.
I'm considering offering her to come live here for a bit. I want to so she can see what good parents are like and I want to help her see life can be different. I know she'd come live here if I offered, and I'm sure she'd find a job and pay some rent.
DH is baffled but accepting.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:19 AM on Jan. 27, 2010 in Relationships
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