I have a past of getting into trouble with worthless checks I ran from my probation for a year and was caught just a few months back. I got locked up for 7 months , now my husband rarely talked to me and never wrote me at all. We at the time were so super close and have a 9 mth old daughter that needs us both. I feel like I want to leave him because it seemed like he didn't care. During the 7 months I found God and I told him I wanted to leave him. He said if I gave him one chance he would show me Gods in his life and that when he comes back (he is in the Navy on deployment) that he would always be there. I do not know whether to believe him or just move on with my life. Cause I am very very hurt by his actions.
What should I do.....please do not criticize me I was young and stupid when I got into trouble and pregnant when I ran I've paid for my crime.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:11 PM on Jan. 27, 2010 in Just for Fun
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You have a lot to deal with so why not stay for now, especially since he is deployed. If nothing else it will give you a chance to experience what it will be like to raise your child alone. Maybe he didn't contact you because he was dealing with a lot also, he is in the military, I'm sure he has seen some really bad things, he has a young child, the child's mother is in jail, Maybe he was doing some soul searching of his own. Leaving just seems like another impulsive decision.
While he is gone work on yourself. Focus on getting a job that can support you and your daughter, taking care of your daughter, growing closer to God, finding a good support system. This should keep you busy. Good Luck.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 10:24 PM on Jan. 27, 2010
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