My BF and I have lived apart for over a year now. Hes at school. We are engaged but he is still going to propose with a ring to me. I really want to get married but I'm really sick of being away from him. My rents and his are not going to be happy bout us living together. We both want me to move down there by the summer. He isnt graduating till 2012 (hes 23 tho..his credits didnt get transferred). His mother doesnt even want him to have anything to do with me and both his mom and dad want him to graduate first. Thats his main reason right now. Even if we got married...he is going to be in grad school eventually. Anyways, I keep seeing everyone around me that ARE in school getting married and im like Why cant we do it? I know it's tough but I know it can be done too. Do you think he is being reasonable or theres a deeper issue?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:13 AM on Jan. 28, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by shay1130 at 12:14 AM on Jan. 28, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 12:16 AM on Jan. 28, 2010
Let him finish college first and see where it goes from there. If you don't and you kind of force him into marriage, he may resent you, his parents are going to resent you and that's no way to start a marriage.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 12:16 AM on Jan. 28, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:22 AM on Jan. 28, 2010
You can love him and support him to stay in school and better himself and his future family. You don't have to be stuck up his butt to show him you love him. There are times in many marriages where the two people are apart for a period of time. You make it work.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 12:22 AM on Jan. 28, 2010