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Answered at 10:23 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
NO -- NEVER -- NO WAY ON EARTH!!!
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Answered at 10:25 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
NOPE! We all make choices, his was to be without me, therefore it will stay that way!!!
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Answered at 10:25 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
Anonymous
nope! i couldn't. he would have broken my heart and you only get that chance once. i could be civil for the sake of the kids, maybe even friends, but not "together."
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Answered at 10:25 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
NO I don't think so he's basically saying your not good enough in a really bad way,and thats not so good on your self esteem or comfort level. I would tell him to take a hike!
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Answered at 10:27 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
There's no way in hell I'd let a man who up & left me & our children for another woman back into my home, heart, or bed. What happens when the next one comes along?
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Answered at 10:28 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
That depends. Does he want to get back with you because he needs a place to live? If he truely loves you & wants you back, start at the beginning. Date with no sex. Don't let him sleep over. Take it slow. Don't let him move back in until you have a ring on your finger & a signed marriage license.
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Answered at 10:29 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
No I would not take him back. Does not matter if I still loved him. If he left me once he will leave me again.
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Answered at 10:46 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
Anonymous
ITA with motherofhope98. It would depend on why he came back and how he behaved. If he wooed me and dated me, didn't demand sex or to live in my home, I might consider it. Also, he had better be taking care of his kids financially and emotionally. This would show me he's back because he loves me, not because he's desperate. Don't you be desperate. It's better to be all alone with no man than to have one who is using you.
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Answered at 10:47 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
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Answered at 10:49 AM on Jan. 29, 2010 by:
Leave it alone! If he did it once, he's more than capable of doing it again, especially if he thinks that you will always take him back. If he truly cared about you, he would not have done it in the first place.